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GESTURES
AND MANNERISMS
We are not a demonstrative race. Which means, not only that
our speakers are generally little disposed to gesticulation,
but also that our audiences are not inclined to watch them,
save as an entertainment. Generally, then, if you are not
wishful to use your hands in your speaking, do not use them.
People will prefer it so, rather than that you should constrain
yourself into insincere and irrelevant motions. " Don't
use little gestures. Don't jerk the hands continually. You
are a speaker, not St. Virus."22 But if we decide to
keep our hands still and for most of us this is wise at first,
we have to do something else with them. They must not go into
our pockets. They must not rattle keys or small change. They
had better not fiddle at all; the glass of water will one
day fall over as we fondle it; the handkerchief we twist round
our fingers will rend noisily; the reading lamp flex will
bare and electrocute us; it is not considered polite to tear
up the little note which said, " Twenty minutes only
please"! If our hands are not wanted for motions or turning
papers, they can rest gently on the table or be folded loosely
hanging before us. They can be clasped palm downwards and
elbows extended upon the desk if we have one. If we have no
desk, the necessity of grasping our Bible may solve the problem
without further thought.
This
is not, however, to discountenance gesture altogether. But
acceptable gesture takes its place with the rest of the preacher's
acceptable qualities. It comes, if it comes at all, we know
not how. This chapter will neither advocate it nor suggest
rules for it: the essence of it is spontaneity. The brother
whose notes were interrupted at a critical point with the
message: " raise bible aloft and thump desk with fist
" must have been a consummate actor if his programme
produced any more than a sad smile from his audience. If we
are preaching from the heart, our whole body will take its
rhythm from our theme-not necessarily on the big scale- and
we shall have no need of tuition.
Mannerisms
are another matter. We all know brethren who have them, and
some we find endearing, and others we find offensive. The
brother who takes off his spectacles at a significant moment
in his address, and leaning over the desk, gently opens and
closes them as he confides an intimate secret of great moment
to us, does what we expect of him. We know him for it and
should be sorry if he stopped. It is part of him. But let
any one try to copy him, and we are enraged. The brother who
clears his throat twice in a sentence should be asked not
to. Kind critics will tell us whether any mannerisms we may
have dropped into are offensive or ridiculous. Our own sense
must tell us that they cannot, and must not, be contemplated
and deliberately adopted.
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